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Practical Magic for Daughters of Tough Mothers
Ready to heal the wound you were never meant to carry alone? Tap Into the Motherlode offers a transformative toolkit blending metaphysical practices with the warmth of sisterhood and the power of story. Here, your healing is not impossible—it's inevitable.
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Free mini-course
Tarot Tools for Daughters of Tough Mothers
A gentle and clear-eyed webinar using Tarot to help soothe the effects of our mother wounds. Learn to use the cards to help soften triggers, understand patterns, and tap into a powerful inner well of strength — no Tarot experience needed.
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Explore New Soul Centered Concepts
Motherlode offers a rich, metaphysical toolbox designed to soothe our special brand of wound. Tap into free content on everything from Reiki to nurturing rituals, somatics to soul retrieval, tarot to transformational astrology. And because every daughter's healing path is unique, we invite you to seek and find what speaks to your soul.
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Go Deeper Where and How You Want
Ready to rabbithole into a particular reparenting theory like IFS , or a metaphysical technique like Shamanic Journeying to reintegrate your inner child and teen? You’ll find all the practical magic right here. Tap into a library of affordable self-guided and group courses designed with heart, humor, real-life experience, and expert resources.
MOtherlode Mentoring
Real talk. Deep healing. One-on-one.
Work directly with the founder of Motherlode in private 1:1 sessions to share your story and craft a customized toolkit for your unique path. Something magical happens when you are seen by someone else who has lived the mother wound too. These sessions are for daughters ready to shape a new story about a past that no longer defines their future.
Motherlode is for you if...
Tap Into the Motherlode is a sanctuary for daughters shaped by judgment, gaslighting, neglect, or outright emotional warfare. It’s a heart-driven space where you can finally exhale, reconnect with your intuition, and explore healing that actually feels like a miracle. Most of what’s out there treats the mother wound clinically, and we don’t knock that approach at all (we’ve been there), but sometimes what we need isn’t more fixing — it's more grace. Motherlode is meant to be a compliment to more traditional modalities.
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Hi, I'm Ivy
I created Motherlode because I’ve lived it.
I grew up with a mother who had Borderline Personality Disorder. And for years I learned to perform instead of feel, disappear instead of take up space, and question my every instinct — especially when it told me the truth — something is not right. Like so many daughters of tough mothers, I fragmented. Dissociated. Forgot how to trust my own voice. Cultivated shame instead of self-esteem.
But healing found me anyway. Not in one shining moment, but piece by piece — through seeking, soul work and a deep inner voice that kept whispering, “there’s more.” Motherlode is the space I wish I had back then: A safe, sweet, scrappy sanctuary for daughters like us. Where we can laugh, cry, unravel, and reclaim together. Because yes, the mother wound is deep, but it's not a mortal one...and it’s not your whole story.
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